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What this book is about

Making friends is exciting - whether it happens on the playground or online. This book follows two children as they learn how to talk to new people, handle shyness, and recognize when something doesn’t feel right. 


By showing both in-person and online situations side by side, children learn that the same safety rules apply everywhere: be kind, but be cautious; don’t keep secrets from parents; tell a safe adult if something feels wrong; and don’t share personal information.

In the back of the book, parents will find red-flag examples kids might hear online, conversation starters for “what if” situations, and guidance for helping children speak up.


This book is ideal for families who want to introduce online safety, stranger safety, and healthy communication in a way that feels safe and non-scary for young readers.

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I Can Be Safe Series

I can be safe Making friends at school and online

A simple story that teaches children when to talk with their parents about friends.

Illustrated by John Graham

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Learning Points

Supporting every adult who cares for a child's well-being.

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Online Safety Rules

Same safety rules apply both online and offline.

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Recognizing Red Flags

Kids identify warning signs in online conversations.

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Telling a Trusted Adult

Children practice speaking up when something feels wrong.

Parent Benefits

With a background in child advocacy and safety education, John Graham creates children's books that address real-world challenges while empowering young readers. Each story is carefully crafted to help children develop confidence, safety awareness, and positive social skills.

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Starts Safety Conversations

Helps parents discuss online and stranger safety naturally.

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Red-Flag Awareness

Prepares parents with examples of concerning online behavior.

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Family Discussion Framework

Guides parents with what-if conversation starters included.

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Inside the book

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Illustrated By:
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Empower Your Child Today

Download our comprehensive guide with practical safety tips for parents
and caregivers. Perfect for starting important conversations.

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