What this book is about
Making friends is exciting - whether it happens on the playground or online. This book follows two children as they learn how to talk to new people, handle shyness, and recognize when something doesn’t feel right.
By showing both in-person and online situations side by side, children learn that the same safety rules apply everywhere: be kind, but be cautious; don’t keep secrets from parents; tell a safe adult if something feels wrong; and don’t share personal information.
In the back of the book, parents will find red-flag examples kids might hear online, conversation starters for “what if” situations, and guidance for helping children speak up.
This book is ideal for families who want to introduce online safety, stranger safety, and healthy communication in a way that feels safe and non-scary for young readers.
Learning Points
Supporting every adult who cares for a child's well-being.

Online Safety Rules
Same safety rules apply both online and offline.

Recognizing Red Flags
Kids identify warning signs in online conversations.

Telling a Trusted Adult
Children practice speaking up when something feels wrong.
Parent Benefits
With a background in child advocacy and safety education, John Graham creates children's books that address real-world challenges while empowering young readers. Each story is carefully crafted to help children develop confidence, safety awareness, and positive social skills.

Starts Safety Conversations
Helps parents discuss online and stranger safety naturally.

Red-Flag Awareness
Prepares parents with examples of concerning online behavior.

Family Discussion Framework
Guides parents with what-if conversation starters included.
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Illustrated By:
John Graham

Empower Your Child Today
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and caregivers. Perfect for starting important conversations.
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